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Yes, caps is yelling, and i was thru the tears. I haven't won my dream prize yet nor any one thing over 450.00 . My wish is the same as many others. I want and need a vehicle. My car is going downhill fast. For the last year i have wanted a Honda Ridgeline. It's all i've wanted. My family laughs because everytime one passes by i point it out. All except one that my son commented on (hey mom, you missed seeing that one), no i didn't son, i didn't like the color. lol. Well  I WOULD GIVE IT ALL BACK if someone would exchange  my old wish and bring back my husbands cousin that was MURDERED, monday night. I WOULD LIKE TO CHANGE MY WISH, PLEASE. He was one person that I gave my t shirt wins to. He was his parents only child. As a few of my friends on here know, i have injuries that affect my daily life and my husband has recently battled cancer.  This individual that died was my lifeline, if something happened to my husband I JUST KNEW THAT HE WOULD ALWAYS BE THERE FOR ME  AS A FRIEND, just down the road less than a mile, and for 25+ years, he and his parents have always been the first people we called if we needed help. What will i do now without him? I am still in denial and shock and i am just now( for the last few hours) shedding the tears. I know this isn't the place for this but since i don't chat anywhere else but here, i felt like it was the only place i could write. I know i am not to question GOD, but i just can't stop the questions. Why?????.  Anyone know where i can give back my wins and exchange my wishes??????. Thanks for letting me cry and post.

Gormom, I am so sincerely sorry for your loss.  Having experienced the loss of a loved one to murder myself, I understand that your life has been completely turned upside down.  The only thing I can say is that it is true that time heals all wounds.  It has been 21 years since it happened, and although I will never forget it, the pain of the event has dulled and I have allowed myself to become more trusting in the world.

In time you will find the strength to move on from this devastating event, create a new safety net for you and your family and be able to remember your loved one for the wonderful man that he was and seperate his memory in life from his memory in death.

Please feel free to private message me if you ever need to chat.  Sometimes venting to someone totally unconnected from the event can be extremely theraputic.

I will keep you and your family in my thoughts and prayers.

Oh Gormon I wish I could come give you a hug,many hugs it always seems that truly special people in our lives never get to stay long with us!I would be happy to listen anytime you need a friend,hang on strong you know there are alot of wonderful people here that would love to lend support!Charlene

Hoop dee doo-You are a strong person with good advice,I was sorry to read about your loss of someone close.

Gormom -- I am so deeply sorry to hear about your tragic loss.  Please know that you and your family will be in my thoughts and prayers.  I hope that you will find a small amount of comfort in the love you will find all around you during this trying time.

 Jean

I am so very sorry to hear about your family's loss.  May sharing your memories of his wonderful life help your whole family through the sad days ahead.  He sounds like he was an incredible human being. 

I don't know what to say or anything like that, no words of wisdom, nothing. I am sorry for your loss, I know that this has to be a terrible time for your family right now. Here are some e-hugs and e-tissues for your family from mine.......OOTOTOOOT! I hope that they find his murderer, and I hope that you all get your chance to speak your peace to his face before he get what he deserves. I know it has to hurt losing a family member and close friend, and I am so sorry that you and yours are feeling that pain right now. I will be praying for your family, and I hope that you can all find peace soon.

Your Friend,

Mindy

Gormom

   My heart truly goes out to you & your family on your recent hardships & sudden tragic loss. My hope is that it brings your family closer together & justice is swiftly served upon the scumbag that did this.

From one north carolina gal to another- you have my deepest & sincerest sympathy. 

dixiemuse

Gormom, I don't know you except from Mr Sweepy's site, but I want you

to know my heart goes out to you and to his parents who lost their only child.

I'm so sorry you are greiving but know that everyone hear on ST feels your pain

and if we could grant your wish we definitely would.

Release your tears and keep the memories and your faith close.

Gerri

 Lots of prayers needed right now. I appreciate the offers to contact some of you and might just take you up on it when i get back to sweeping. Hoop dee doo, i am so sorry for your loss also, and appreciate your words of wisdom. Charlene129, jean621, gazoogleheimer,MindySue963,Dixiemuse, raceyblonde, i appreciate each one of you for  all you kindness and prayers. I will write more  later. Thank you all!

 I wish you get your wish.

SOOO SORRY FOR YOUR LOSS!!  MAY TIME HEAL YOUR BROKEN HEART!  REMEMBER THE GOOD TIMES AND THINK OF HIM OFTEN...

gorman

I'm very sorry for your loss.  I've never lost anyone to murder, although I did have an upstairs neighbor that was crazy and put my son, who is disabled in the hospital.  (Still have nightmares over that).  I have however lost all my family but my sons and it is very hard, especially on holidays.  I miss them all so much.  My only brother died at 58 from his heart and I miss him terribly.  My only comfort is remembering the good times and knowing someday we'll all be together again.  I wish I could make it better but I can't.  Just know that we are thinking of you through this terrible time.

hoop dee doo   So sorry to hear that you lost someone to murder too.

Barb 

Thanks everyone, hotwhelz,BarbaraF3. Michaelmyers7, i wish that you would get your wish so that i would get my wish , did i get that right? The funeral home is tonight so i am just checking my mail, will be back on soon. thanks everyone. I won another small prize today and i still would give it back too if i could.

The loss of a loved one is always difficult; however, to lose someone thru the criminal action of another is horrible.  Stay strong.

Thanks marli, i am not as strong as i thought, i couldn't go to the funeral home to see him last night, i know that i will regret that decision but i still want him to walk thru my door, i have to go to the funeral today and i am afraid i will loose it.  thank you ,